For Dads-to-Be

Because it is the woman who is pregnant, it is sometimes easy to overlook the important role of dad – before, during the pregnancy, and after baby is born.  Dad will be the most important man in his baby’s life, and will be the single biggest influence on the choices that Mom makes about such important things as getting adequate prenatal care and breastfeeding.

Involved fathers provide practical support in raising children and serve as models for their development. Children with involved, loving fathers are significantly more likely to do well in school, have healthy self-esteem, exhibit empathy and pro-social behavior compared to children who have uninvolved fathers.  Committed and responsible fathering during infancy and early childhood contributes emotional security, curiosity, and math and verbal skills.

There are many resources available to help men have the most positive experiences as fathers and create the most healthful environment for their babies.  These are sites that answer all men’s questions about pregnancy, birth, babies, and how to be the best dad possible.

The National Center for Fathering [http://www.fathers.com/articles/cat.asp?cat=1] has tips for fathers at all stages.

The March of Dimes [http://www.marchofdimes.com/pnhec/362.asp] has great information on how a dad-to-be can support the birth of a healthy baby.

The Center for Successful Fathering [http://www.fathering.org/Resources.asp] has detailed information about the importance of fathers on children’s lives.

The National Fatherhood Initiative [www.fatherhood.org]  has resources for groups and individuals on being a better father.

The National Practitioners Network for Fathers and Families [www.npnff.org] is a membership based organization for professionals which provides information and resources to strengthen fathers and families.